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October 4, 2020 8:08 pm
TEENS AND MENTAL HEALTH Ep 108
Discussing teenagers and how families deal with the hardships during the pandemic on the latest episode of The Cure, where host Aimee Cabo and psychotherapist Dillon Welliver review how to help our teenagers.
Dillon says: "In the process of therapy, we will bridge the gap between that authentic and beautiful self you have always been, and the one who is so much pain today." Dillon Welliver is a licensed mental health counselor, graduated Masters in Clinical Psychology from The University of Central Florida. https://www.blueskytherapeuticservices.com/
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Mystic violence addictions, poverty and even sexual abuse by your loved ones welcome Amy, Q 11 with my partner, Boris using the word I is available live on your radio share any smart website.com live streaming on social media over the world that for now were broadcasting live from Miami to satellite available in 35 Expedia stations in 11 states and soon after the show is clear as well as next Sunday six 1010 131. The family talked to show deals. The suffering of the human spirit by the courage to keep moving forward despite any obstacle with the help of God, who enables us to help each other. We provide testimonials to let people know that we are not alone, as well as experts in expending inspirational speaker who can help in this show testimony started with me having been a survivor of child abuse want to young adulthood.
I do believe we all suffer.
Somehow with the help of God. We can be a source of healing for each other. For me it was the only chair that other forms of healing are presented as well to service everyone is challenging but there's always hope when someone cares. At least God first went economic to say that our thoughts and in our prayers is the president the first lady and all those affected by coven 19 we pray you feel surrounded with much love moments of peace and comfort as we hold you close in our thoughts. Wishing you well and trusting that God will bring about a full speedy recovery and Godspeed to the medical team which we are extremely grateful for their simply heroes. This only played earlier was it's okay not to be okay.
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Using the same section, we can feel as if I barely noticed one of the many carrying on the role we all learn to play we can try to blend in and ignore sad emotions. Thinking it's all in our heads, keeping it in.
It's like being trapped in our skin just getting by is not enough.
Once we break down emotions run high, but don't give into the moment. Don't lose your to focus still pray that is when we are closest to finding our way when we know we need help and it's okay not to be okay. Today we will discuss mental health teenagers topic really needed by so many parents and the person that can help us with that is that when given is a psychotherapist for 15 years helping hurting people with various mental health conditions.
Adolescents and families coparenting graduated from the University of Central Florida with Masters in clinical psychology and holds various mental health certifications telling welcome to the care you now live in one we are in the coronavirus pandemic which is not taking many lives as we all have been dealing with another pandemic for many years.
There is one death by suicide among teenagers.
The US every 12 digit depression and now maybe more to the closeouts. How can we prevent that, and how can we recognize well request and Leo, are you read argue about prevention, go to community but learn to understand the world, collectively and recognize the by mental health is with family and autoimmune list rather than the wave all around right now.
Communication with parents really help our community, government's it to be a very difficult thing to deal with because teenagers emotions run high, and what I wanted to ask you is as a teenager out of town which predisposition for suicidal ideation or is this this happened to any teenager, given certain circumstances. Well all everyone otherwise nearly everyone knew everyone moment where you live, your wife in order to recall that we elimination really without you and Lander by Bell within 45 minutes, maybe we found though. Yeah, look at the vision of family conflict on the burger, you look tired and very long and would be good to dig though we had a lot of little we don't really know what our kids live like Eric a lot, you really don't know their inner world going on appropriate for the sea.
Some warning signs make them feel more alert so the mood all the local depression group or drama or conflict going on.
You better coordinate all their certain indicators are like the problem.
What I think there a big trigger for it. The report to you then, who would you tell Eric to naturals normal and how you will you hold the 13-year-old bowl really being engaged attention. Having your kids and your tension.
I mean, you think that they find that their friends more important even at this age they do need their parents. You know, a lot of parents may not know that because I just recently learned this, I thought if she found her parents more important than what Hawaii plays what role do I play that now they still need a lot of guidance and it's it's it's it's very important because if you're talking about social media and drama every teenagers at risk. So it's important to keep the lines of communication. Most importantly to let them know that you forgiving are you willing to be forgiving and you love them no matter what, and you will accept them no matter what, so they don't feel like there's no doubt and now you got a good point. Enter live what the other line that what they think their phone there, providing the warm realm live so they might think about you the other Theme but without that parent you know why I have no character. There is a highly important without the bear engaged regularly argue involvement at work and do the dishes that strike that dangerous things will return. I want to talk about Jean's resort to cutting themselves so we will continue talking is helping teachers that we can better understand this goal is 186 explored questions about 18662. An experience of God. I was forced to wash people's choices.
My heart Amy, every Saturday at one drama. Truth is looking back and thinks 15. Remember the missing fluorouracil life throw up with any couple, only those about go through both cuts are displayed with head and heart by Joel Corey and and and EK lick sick Superman song. There are times we find ourselves saying things we normally wouldn't, and behaving in ways which we had had to nature within us the very beginning of our hearts that tells us to stop whenever we feel it's God we should run from instead of the enemy because of what he come it can't be far with God loves us too much.
It was never a crash.
It's love. Unconditional and it's always enough. We are talking to telling who is helping us better understand our teenagers didn't. So here's the other thing we should be aware of said we can try to help.
How can we address a teen that is cutting himself or herself.
Explain why this happens and how we can help. What can we do as parents we know oh, not phenomenon. I don't think it will going on. I will be good, but what going on. When my wife worked for me I'll really do it.
We found that when so I can't liken it.
Who do I open their pain. That when they cut the really out of focus for a moment be here for a moment and it goes away really quickly become global in addiction were the other relief that I want to feel something of what I'm feeling okay so when the cutting themselves. Wouldn't that be a deterrent.
Well, I they come. The pain is the point gold leaf with your booking directly feel good about the pain of the normal for myself or my family. That order comes about goal not controlled by and the pain does not what you do about it being engaged as a parent have an honest direct conversation about it (you know you are in particular the area is do they need is a child that needs intervention, this is just friends doing phase roll out. He cutting about the conversation or supervision, usually not about usually want to kill myself from Lulu at 80.
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But certainly there son with knives and lease cars that are absolutely unfortunately without boys because actually more dangerous girl. Or deeper and have more brightly more toward ligation.
The girl I've often ordered all you can just going through as adults where our lives have changed so much. Cannot imagine a teenager that their minds might there mind may not be as mature and don't really express how they feel on getting them that they're hurting to telling how do I know Amy about street trunks. How common is that among teenagers is in matter of bad influences or could you tell me how we can protect her children from Lewis away from full find a way that drug and that confirmation that the barbaric like that are now is med marijuana and the prevalence of oil in all things were looking for can get so much more PAC than you ever could've the path and joint to our you feel you can with what were thinking about a lot of induced psychosis among teenagers is this the ramp-up right around the time that is available. The Maryland induced psychosis hasn't presented old goat would be their delusion. The reality all but my real ranking really never will forget what we have now is the thing we 3040 day life deeper than their pocket, though I was able to legally market so soon. The situation with the big bands were coming. Thanks go away. Hearing about it about whether the battle we don't really know you don't know what's going on so I don't think that what I think what you're seeing is a bit rare but maybe big margin.
The plaintiff about what's normal teenager behavior.
Looking indicate a bigger problem statements when it comes teenagers find me to share how you doing, or maybe your goal is to see how you're feeling. 1866 34 through play and the welcome back and thinks 15 live every Saturday at 1 PM on your radio here and your website God's care.com shows all Robo calls was agreeable because this look for the cure with amicable workbook costs are a song that just played still have me I can I can be in this and still feel broken enemy knows the opportune time when he tries to steal the light only given the divine at our lowest deep in silence. We lay at Jesus feet. It's when we are emotions depend on no one that we rise about 50 we can read her stories over give more meaning to the theme make it worthwhile reading, even when it hurts to praise faith can take me there or I believe in me.
I proved it so many times as he set me free by your American talking to Dylan about teenagers and mental health. Now sometimes you forget we were teenagers. Funds still when it comes to teenagers on some people don't know that some teenage behavior can be normal and some signs can indicate to a bigger problem now a lot of things we just throw it off to just being a teenager are that the teenager and so what are things that we should know about. That's not typical teenager behavior? Here's so what what whatever find that are atypical. We look to be one thing I like to coparent the body. With it you really get quiet at the question all apply. In what we can know we can do no info to be quiet enough away from the were noise in the Bible and look at her children with some attention on an what might be normal once it may not be normal for another suburban there are really the normal normal that similar thing earlier would be changes in behavior changes in foreign group Dunlop Hoppe had all no question of anxiety.
Looking around the room for things either delete asking that question about our teenager merits looking into. I think I am also about the stigma when it comes to teenagers that are in therapy needing therapy or does it doesn't keep them from seeking therapy is still surfacing stigma as it is an adult that not not like.
We then roll over the little up what therapy than others, but in general. All they don't care you not worked for years with the Army over in Germany, no. Adolescents and they could care less who knew they didn't care about the reality and in general about my goal about but we do and I guess because it's easier to forgive a child, and it is an adult. Okay, so when 344 mental health professional to get involved in the situation here when when your intuition mother and father never harmed in heaven by a counselor like if you're worried about anything. There's something going on, listening to you and then want to talk to you Amy. Amy needs somebody mutual cell good reason to get them how right and talking about how do we get a teenager that that doesn't like to share to us. What are you go. One thing that happened here in your water might not have them not the authority figure. Figure they know there are no apparent authority. I don't quote for them. But don't let them in and go you wanted to be open on you. Demonstrate open open on you know you want your kid to be happy and joyful.
You demonstrate happiness and joy you have never been one to really like and that programs like book that carried a happy healthy teenager all Michael for the parent you learn to be used in valid happy call confident yourself. You do the work on yourself and then demonstrate that what they see info about techniques and ways to communicate with the parent. First let me look at my life. Let me let me deal with my pain.
I use my path walked in my backpack but I don't reject the child and not what updated. The really get what they work do the work himself. The relationship with the kid, it changes organic that you do anything I exhibit happy call before genuine, they tend to match so again with this old sender the same token if you want your teenager to share with you each to be honest and share with them as well so first got it, so okay all kids going out, they go through so many various stages, obstacles and troubles, and we as parents we need to reach out to because we forget how scary the road can be to then sometimes rascals know too many things so our daughter doesn't want to go to school. She's happy with the homeschooling which is no schooling remapping will be for the toys do not beget to be complacent, complicated through various go located at time it's fun so what do more with teenagers losing much of self did you mention that we have two of them well one teenager and one what you call the lesser major small major adolescent and sometimes even in your 40 job back.
Now you ended at 1100 and in the brain to stop growing but thickly right here in the prefrontal cortex that but on 2020 or 25 when part of a lot longer. Anything you do this, these oppositional stuff. What it's like special right so I'll parent about not engage about pattern breaking what you find. You make the screw you, and you yell at them and you great good thing. No one with the other nonengagement about well I need to be made aware that I would allow you to have the. Here are the rules here the consequences.
You can argue with the rules, but good deal to disengage from the art and to return the different point in the angle and give them a hug and their love walk away pattern lean more towards love re-create it with these teenagers love to hear from you.
If you teenager you know teenager 18661866 relationship others say all all welcome back and thanks for listening care yes literature will be available as a book search for the cure. Amy, Amy spell by the railroad and I am a doubly when any broadcast channel and subscribe a song that just played last when you need. I pray trades when we fly high sink deep had been there so many times when we lose ourselves chasing falling stars tend to lose our dreams. They don't line up, and just because we spend our lives finding love in the wrong places doesn't mean we should give up. God reaches out to us and said lay your head here on my soldier and I will heart you hold you so very near and if you let go and relentless and available so pull me closer.
I'm right here. I can love even better if you just let me take care every need very talking to Dylan whenever psychotherapist helping us discuss teenagers. And I can almost hear okay and hearing again. Family therapy solution. Everybody together discussing issues with the therapist with you teenager are they willing to go to therapy with their parents are from are not admired. Her need to develop a relationship with me that I have their best interest that I encountered help them find their voice or translate for them. The parent of the parent correctly what birthday with family therapy is wildly while the hole and healing all the problem function is not along the teenager alone long family, and often time the teenagers of the Russian of the problem with the family apparel, market, but the drug then the problem goes away much quicker the better, more healthy terra-cotta head of though, back around to the parent to do the work himself. So the therapist of the patient of the Dean department. She can now get better grades for their agreement but families are my patient, not the particular anyone particular person. All but you know in my practice and in reality to look a lot of the way it is the client and the family become the client to get amazing usually better if you have it with the therapist, family therapist with different there.
There is no social and safes and helps interesting I see let the teams and their families do to get help at this school.
Good resource or support groups you know there are only group doing so many wonderful things like go there very good report as a resource. Now I know we were working on so community effort and you know-all my background work that day. The whole community. You know when and what individualized culture we can live to lay there and be independent building community giving report, the community, encouraging you know you've heard the expression, it takes a village to raise a good pitch. True. So I have learned about this online virtual therapy has online therapy lurking is not beneficial. I am an online therapy] only online directly, but I will have been well all right now. The research is showing that there really is no different in online and in person and then the more studies are done, the more the day that is not really a different bit. Love you get into a car, you will wait in the waiting room for all your home and your more comfortable at home teenager who live on their phone is not a stretch for them to push room link and popular therapist will work over a little quote that I have struggled with being not instructed all the millennial. They they don't see anything unusual about some adults done. I mean I understand and there shouldn't be much of a difference.
Really, it's actually more convenient by you feel someone's energies to screen load you can. You look nice spell, you can have it. I guess right related V in the room but I what going all the client who it up on body language but avoid it on my own and with enough fluid there. There I feel like there's not a lot lot lot were not primarily about the big problem why five right though. Maybe opening even more marginal people born anything with it because it doesn't require a physical exam or anything like that so you're basically studying the person and it it doesn't need to be present when online infinitely tender for that. I see that we have a collar because quick question John hello Dr. therapy and we Dr. question and open up teleport going on or I'm not sure which of course doing just the small phone break so this is asking if you started therapy with a patient with a child going to explain to the parents. What's going on yet, though, you want to have faith that there could be God with the therapist and know that another one back and tell the parent all at the same time. Well play the parent. I think the kid is at risk on the I think they're going to kill himself hurt the one out there putting out word about you.
Safety reasons question we almost at the end of the show and we need to start the closing up and up to school again. Joan also doing. Thank you again for being on the show.
It was a great the talking to you and finish of the pain is so more information on the deals practice can be found on blue sky therapeutic services.com is a correct website. If you need a reference yes will let the pair as families stay at pair preteens to grow spiritually and at school, family and social pressures. Father, we left the teams to grow spiritually in you and the school family and social pressures.
We often called great men and women in their teens to follow you into their destiny from David being crowned King 15 to Esther saving her people. As a young adult to Mary being bestowed the honor of carrying your son Jesus as a team, you often have a tender spot incoming youth to their journeys. We pray that during the time between childhood and adulthood. They would come to know you more spiritually that it would be merely that it would not be merely relating indispensable rules to be fathered at a deeply rooted relationship where they come to know the character and heart of God be praying this year's theme brace you in their heart and that seating eight will grow into guarding to splinter in your kingdom for the fruit and life. We pray against the attacks of the enemy influences that are seeking to correct we speak against such spirits. In Jesus name for you said in Matthew 18 at those who seek to lead a child into sin come in offense against you. We pray for your spirit protecting and reading can into true communion with you growing interest and spirit. I know that the special relationship, which he will protect them from any of the problems that they make case in Jesus pray in Jesus name.
And thank you to deserve that and clean myself in making the #thanks to Robert Gilmore of kingdom pursued in the Christian car guy says for his guidance and of course thinking tomorrow listeners 17 75,000 downloads crazy Amy Couto here. Stacy K.
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