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Bullies find a way to bully despite the Coronavirus- 83

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April 11, 2020 1:00 pm

Bullies find a way to bully despite the Coronavirus- 83

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April 11, 2020 1:00 pm

Cyberbullying is still happening even though children are not in school due to the Coronavirus. Guest of The Cure Dr. Gustavo Roldan discussed with Aimee, Dr. Boris, and special guest Michelle Nikolov.

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Aimee Cabo Nikolov is a Cuban American who has lived most of her life in Miami. After many years of healing, finding love, raising a family and evolving her relationship with God, Aimee's true grit and courage led her to pen an honest, thought-provoking memoir. Years of abuse became overshadowed with years of happiness and unconditional love. Now Aimee is the president of IMIC Research, a medical research company, a speaker, radio host and focused on helping others. You can read more about Aimee by  visiting her website.
 
Dr. Boris Nikolov is the CEO of Neuroscience Clinic. You can read more about Dr. Nikolov and the work he is doing by  visiting his website.

Michelle Nikolov, a 12 year old is a co-host of today's show, an aspiring bullying child advocate who shares her testimony.

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Dr. Gustavo Roldan has been a mental health professional for over 25 years and is an Adjunct Professor at Florida International University. He has been studying Cannabis Treatment for over 20 years in Colorado, Oregon, Washington and North Carolina, and Medellín, Colombia. Dr. Roldan facilitates workshops on many Cannabis related topics. He also facilitates "Caregiver Support Groups". Member of Society of Cannabis Clinicians and Patient's Out of Time. Dr Roldan is currently working at the  Neuroscience Clinic Miami. You can read more about Dr. Roldan by visiting the Neuroscience Miami website

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Violence addictions, poverty and even sexual abuse by your loved ones welcome, Amy, and the Q and log in on you condo it may better have glory and our product of love little Michelle is available live radio app here which can be downloaded any smart phone or our website. God is the Caradoc we are broadcasting live from Miami to satellite available media is more than 11 states, among others, and soon after the show on any podcast player is shown deals with suffering the tenacity experience the will to survive and the courage to keep moving forward despite any obstacle with the help of God and each other. We do provide testimonials to let people know that we are not alone and they shall testimony started with me having been a survivor from child abuse.

Wellington young adult. Yes, I have experts in several fields and inspirational speakers are willing to help valuable information. Knowing the education necessary awareness is crucial in comfort is very much needed.

I do believe we all suffer or have suffered from something and I hope we can be a source of healing to each other though my feeling came from God, but other forms of healing are presented as well to service everyone life can be very challenging. But always know there's always someone who cares.

There's always hope. In the summer that we displayed my panic was to have items and I love things and I are so talented. I must say that then again, no one wants to be the bad child feeling like the one who's exiled when considered apart as a child. This child can be bullied fully can start in the home from siblings or parents, it can be a spouse or a best friend. It can be a boss that believes in him. An employee colleagues from work and printed school and even teachers and principals are capable others as well. Even priests. They killed the parishioner to donate more money like it happened to my generous older sister bullying can happen to anyone at any time for any given reason. But what about when it comes to children the best among us.

How can we help the little ones so that they're not bad, child feeling like they're always the one wrong so that hopefully they never lose their fire. I would first like to take amount and seek you to America from the bottom of my heart for staying home laying low and standing strong during this covered 19 pandemic crisis and on this day before Easter we remember that it's not popular to do the right thing and there are those that will hate instead of understand Jesus need this well and suffered for our sake. It's his way of letting us know it's going to be all right, and it's worth the fight to happy Easter and today we have a special guest Dr. Gus novel role that Dr. Rodin has worked with children and families for over 25 years as a mental health therapist and a school psychologist, Dr. world and has taught our Purdue University and is currently an active process or in the school of education at Florida international University doctoral land is also a sub investigator and clinical research studies, and a psychologist and neuroscientist clinical clinic nanny for mental health. We also have a surprise additional guest today so our amazing 12-year-old daughter who has been pushing us now for a while to do a show that addresses bullying so she can speak on behalf of others.

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Thank you for being on the show doctoral land. What is bullying Quattlebaum going on right now on school Rogers not in your introduction in the work everywhere and throughout very clear definition which we do professional in every lot of understanding that there is a difference between bullying and cost and the main conflict. Everyone experiences conflict from time to time. The normal part of life, but the bowling were the recumbent court unwanted and aggressive behavior and the intent is to harm or intimidate or coerce them, but intent there to do harm were in conflict happen. People would be good emotionally agitated and for lack of better word lose control.

But then through some remorse when there's a conflict and that happen between the siblings that have been caught up at work. There is a aggression if you will verbally and over the physical, but the good people are willing to resolve it in applicable more for Boyd intent is the continuously harm and that the other part of intent but also it the harassment or verbal, physical coercion got a busy intent of harming the gotta be repeated something that happened over and over again and then the third most important part in the but there is a difference in power.

There has to be some kind of different power imbalance, but someone maybe stronger may be more popular and maybe smarter has some kind of influence over the victim. So you basically saying if there's no conflict resolution, and the person is just as continuing in taken advantage of the situation of the legal one, then it's considered pulling and correct that continuous the perceived weaker one if you want. We'll talk about that later people victim through the perceived weakness were different but no, that's how we can help record but did not think that he wants to say something about a shy doctorate so is it always necessary. The, the boarding person to have the body division is also up for them just to be how they are. Research shows that the Amy will younger people aren't bad or evil of bully bumping the work so right. And that's what I wanted to go into because it is a learned behavior or is it something that's happening home.

I mean, I can imagine a kid just naturally wants to be mean I cannot write right and so unfortunately no blood pointed out the camp either resident as they are that but from out from where you came to that and in the bully's usually has some kind of environmental families things going on and it's about control, about manipulation, so this is what they've learned how to open with their own security that was thrown is so true because I go that was being abused and I did not know this is because I didn't do it and I don't understand it doesn't mean it doesn't happen and I did not know that going on, but not the kids at least were not nice kids and I read about this car that was being abused at home is totally up to dealing with. It was becoming a bully at school so those are things that we need to consider as well, but pretty believes that risk of building something that I'd like to go into so that we can look for the signs and symptoms and risk yes but unfortunately Jan and well it can be anyone and will continue talking about going with activist would love to hear from you, your question at 866-34-TRUTH again at 18 34 two.

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Remember that you can listen to the radio show life through the cure up under Amy, now we have you ever spell you lost at home and everyone's against you still noticing God More than we know this is Michelle's pick is a big fan of Celine liver and can tell you more when this came from me I now boy now no CT she is and she is working in so she got a lot of bullying, cyber bullying and Michelle had brought this to my attention and I told her that bullying can happen to anyone, and what's important is that we are all humans and we all make mistakes and it's more important to be forgetting, black cleaned where right because she changed talk a little honey and see Marielle everyone forget no one why why why why why a blanket. She but girl tonight. She is okay and then and then they get bullied, but having you join experiences with bullying in school and was in there girl that was being bullied.

Tell us about the name you know you not to see the name of your friend, girl every single moment like to write on line you will girl will basically dinner really picking on her a lot and they were not being friends with her and they were ignoring her and me.

So was the only one that became her friend and even though she lost all her friends and nobody would talk to her.

She's the only one that stood out for her as she realized that it's not right to be bullied and even if it's not popular to be her friend, because it can also happen to you like it happened to her. So bullying it can happen to anyone because back to you tell me who is at risk for bullying, because as you can see Michelle's very outspoken, yet she was bullied and the truth is, this can happen to anyone from learning a lot from her stroke reported on anybody could be bullied but the main thing were looking at your people who are bullied are perceived there some kind of different than what people are looking at the bully looking at somebody different than that different could be physical. A way to could be the way they looked away the threat wearing glasses is not snotty just taking anything. The rights of the poor be a risk and all the food the perceived weakness in the person or unable to defend themselves. Maybe they're depressed or anxious level name is not popular to your.

Maybe they're very introverted. They like to study the book and in the about different really, and I know which showed no fixed great is the perfect showed great is our more multiple and Yes Lynn start their end. The reporting as they get older, pleasantly so, the bullying happens in the middle school in Eiffel. Unless people reported admin and young adulthood work much with 40 but again going back to any bitterest with the perceived different none bullied to harp on that perceived diplomatic attribute mental health. Maybe the child some kind of a dog.

New York read autism work tomorrow.

Something about burglars that I get annoyed just because of perceived proceeds. We like going out my experiences was the shy kid where the kid that was client or you know they just perceived that kid is weak.

I guess, and Tom. It's really unfortunate.

It's an unfortunate because I mean I know that they took out Bibles in school and everything. And you know the scene treat others the way that you would like to be treated the same and very Orton point and noted that when a pure intervening when you're actually intervened on behalf of the student bullied over 50% of the bullying. When there is an actual pure intervention that's very important, very brought himself that when you put up for the for the girl will call wherever the bowling would stop because they. Now on the board. There is somebody who is aware of it there's somebody who can maybe tell me there's somebody with the right so that's very important that she said.

A good example because when Michelle was being bullied. Another little girl that was very popular like Michelle was decided to stand up for Michelle is all her friends very bright. I also like bullying me thinking I was in a high me and if it wasn't for those two friends who said they cared.

That's what helped her through and that's what important that were here for one another because it's Julie saying Dr. you know peers letting them know it's not kind. It's not nice sometimes opens their eyes point know the effect of pulling guard and will not about the next morning we come back different learning new will be showing the care live every Saturday at 1 PM and will continue topping about the lien is Collins with any questions you like to share 1-866-334-1634 units to change to go walking to the care. Welcome back, Amy, and you're listening to the care that was just something that I picked I now I can hear this song is God saying when you're with me.

No judgment can be ourselves and say what's on your mind. We don't have to prove anything to anyone.

Only God knows who we truly are and he shows it to everyone that loves us. There is no judgment when it comes to God, we can get that from anyone. I also want to remind you about the cultists we started, let us know. Suggestions were so that we can play on the show through our conduct. This page God is the cure.com and if we play it, you will receive a $25 certificate and we are presently talking to Dr. Ruth child psychologist is helping us discuss doctoral Dan Wheeler discussing some of the effects of bullying or not a part one ride a lot. One of the effect depression and depression.

Mother died feeling that loneliness can affect her sleep pattern may move interconnectivity David Joy Dowd have no interest on victim somatic also the word start leaving to help complete headache back obviously know when the child feeling like there emotionally or physically. They're going to start the academic third third go on typically want to miss school may get appointment with her older they made before they want to drop out of yes I mean Michelle has always told me that those could be mean but I remember Michelle told me she was afraid to go back to school because she was afraid of the principal 12.

That's kind of aborting Galvan's that she was afraid to be alone anymore with her because she screams at her and cause or allow your men, you know, and you know it can be really sad. It can be systematic and in LA sometimes the adults are not adults, they need to look at things with an open mind not pass judgment because no bullying is one of the leading causes of suicide you is not well researched that back bowling card by noted losses, depression that were already exacerbated that validated.For the debate will be the other know what type of debate is Ottoman is like a visit.

There is a cause and effect right. If you are depressed and somebody promotes the depression. For whatever reason.still to McCall's the company because it brings about that depression, if you're being bullied on constantly. At least that's what I hear about cyber bullying. A lot of cyber bullying as seen in the news have caused some suicide among the youth also. I just went like I know that this is talking about so late so I called Don and Dennis basically hi to Duncan donuts are put a link on Duncan because of bullying.

This is why it's important not only sorry I so what is cyber bullying.

Basically bullying somebody through the Internet phone any kind of digital device and nothing about the worst thing about fiberboard bowling all identify the person reported there's a way to resolve the problem and you want to be able to resolve 45 point not know hosting things about no rat so it makes it that much more difficult to pinpoint word coming from the to be able to resolve now doing this Dr. I know that people some of us under stress and some of us depressed and some of us angry jubilees Abilene or cyber bullying is more prominent during these times or the debtor is, is it like I know the result of bullying in school is almost no well that's no longer an issue that is school and national school weight winter know very little don't always have in the classroom, reported to the classroom.

You're doing instruction from the classroom bowling could be having classroom, but obviously with no plat going on this bill taken place, and yet the prevalence of much higher now because this is the way through social media in which there connecting and communicating definitely much higher now and the unfortunate part about also is the you have these with a call now and Michelle is more about the legal import will be one social media for no other reason than they have a lot of followers are now called influencers and make its way opinion and unfortunately these influencers are our outing individuals who have tested positive for the virus so now you've got the stigma incrimination of individuals were tested positive and now avoid them, avoid the family so really take on a whole new perspective. Will I know I know a way out of it. They can say to people with the virus. Well good luck to you.

I'm going to be new no, that's a good response right is the cutest question because I understand that a person is most likely to bully is someone who may be abuse themselves like student that bully Michelle you know I wondered if something's happening to this student for another students going to this you know and that is not always the case are kits just bullying. With nothing going on is the society have a role to play in tell us a little bit about that fighting role in the way people shape or starting with family know what what going on in the family and Howard are our weary of adult models or children independent bullying going back to the original definition of conflict resolution know how how are the children able to resolve the property are able to problem so as to be the dark Michelle to be a peacemaker.

It's very hard. I was on the were not modeling the proper pollution problem solving and another big one is little bit into how do we help people not be fully or not or would not be victim and not the boys without emotional intelligence emotional intelligence is able to accurately perceive the motion in be able to understand emotions within Amanda. No, not something that the readers of adults are doing a good job of family, school psychologist as a family health for the big thing, but the work on his emotional intelligence. People children understand the motion and then understand that emotion management, something that a lot of adults can't duplicate the front of the thinking of adults we have a responsibility to protect the children.

But what if we hit a wall and we cannot find help these people are not finding nothing in importance too late and not taking it seriously. They will not help your child that's something only one attachment and what can we do in those cases the return look to hear from you if the government and questions about voting is bolus of 1866 34 through 1866 34 through the work of the talking with the federal government wife can bring many difficult situations, domestic violence, addictions, poverty and even sexual abuse by your loved ones. The issue is not stay there, but to overcome all obstacles and show that with the love of God, your husband and your family. You can succeed.

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We have nothing to fear. Also want to remind you about the cultist recently started lettuce no suggestions for a song that we can blame the show through our contact us page of God is the catacomb and if we play it, you will receive a $25 gift certificate. Thank you for talking to Dr. Dan is helping us discuss bullying and Dr. Rodin. One thing I know is, how can we prevent it and how can we help others. Now I have a case where if a child is being bullied, letting school and you go to the adults in the authorities and the people are supposed to help the child goes to the counselor. The counselor doesn't believe her principal gets against her. Don't believe the appearance he can't get help for that child. How can you protect your child, then from being bullied not only from her classmates at the adults are supposed to be helping her important I want to warn one minute before I answer the question. Prevention talk about fiberboard before the break were talking about parental involvement is also prevention involvement vital with her children started on your child feel the talk about it fiberboard and there are online tools that monitor social media not something that we parents have the young pop-up what our children you would what platforms of the tick-tock. The Instagram did all the faithful followed children. We need to be on top of that in modern social. There are online tools monitor social media not one thing going to the question of how do we presented an unfortunate note example that you gave Amy because I felt like a magician.

You know that in most cases has the school psychologist. No warthog ago when open in the idea that there is a community wide bullying prevention strategy that is now standard procedure in any school. I then know so so amazing because we really only started aching and keeping the 26 2005 so all the bully prevention of what he really started out will what the figures is nothing but the job but 2005 restarted recording and keeping data followed is a problem. Okay, so what you're dealing with them where the job you haven't really peered through their communitywide prevention strategy. That's the first thing that got the community come to school could be you play area could be you workplace your palette so there's got to be that there's gotta be a member of the school you're talking about another's other. Sense of building an environment as a child supposed to feel safe when they can find in the counselor get in trouble for it like physically whatever the says you say to the counselor. The counselor will go's report to the principal and the principal gets in your case and is unlike a normal because principal harasses the child while An overall debt that environment and that particular school for the whole that happened, but more could be that something it happens to be a Catholic school right unfortunate that your there are people do no work applauded for making poor decisions of poor choices. So you got up at some point, you're right. Go get them for not you and no third hierarch and that I would suggest continue climbing up that ladder of the hierarchy.

I learned something this station called appearance to appearance, and in kids have a right and they will help you, but I think it has to do with public schools only.

Unfortunately, there's not much help the kids back. Looking at a private schools about kids with the disabilities so good sleep. The special needs. I am sure there's other organizations where parents can be a support system to each other for when it's difficult to get help for your child right right or to overall prevention of bullying is education. The bully victim got a program within the environment that communication problem for public road futures and the administration.

The tools would be able to identify one of the findable. The parent you gotta be afterschool program assembly.

The parent absolutely to our educated by the Children that my children threat to come over and play with them over and out. You know there's there's something that has to be; I that everybody is your question about like I know how would I see in movies. I do have similar scores on public it comes to come so back from school and a somebody started pulling him and as a result, she just gets One of Them Got in Trouble Is Not for.

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